You're a more liberated man than I and more power to you. Years ago when I thought I could handle certain male fantasies, I saw a girl I was seeing at the time enjoying a rather vigorous kiss with a mutual female friend. That fantasy of seeing a partner with another female soon evaporated, it knocked me back as much as I think if it had been a man. I'll stick with the fantasy I thinkNot anymore. Really just love seeing my wife getting pleasured in ways I admittedly can’t give her.